What is Facesitting and Facesitted Techniques

What is Facesitting?

Facesitting is a sex act that, along with various facesitting techniques, sparks curiosity, excitement, and sometimes nervous laughter.

Facesitting, also called queening or kinging, is one person straddling another's face. This is usually for oral sex.

There are different ways to facesit:

• Knees bent (hovering position): Provides more control and comfort.

• Full squat: More pressure and intensity.

• Reverse position: Facing away for a new angle and surprise element.

So, Do Women & Men Like Facesitting?

The answer is always a resounding yes—but the reasons can vary depending on perspective, personality, and comfort level.

Facesitting is more than just a sex act. It's an experience mixing intense, dominance, sexy, and enjoyable feelings. This makes it a talked-about oral sex position.

In this guide, we'll explore what facesitting is. We'll cover why guys like it. Learn safety tips and tricks for more pleasure. This applies to both partners.

Why Do Men Like Facesitting?

• The feeling of being “trapped” under their partner.

• Intense closeness - body contact, smell, and taste.

• Watching their partner lose control with pleasure.

Men often describe it as “the hottest way to focus 100% on her orgasm.” As one man said: “I know my girl better each time from this.” 

Why Do Women Enjoy Facesitting and How Does It Feel?

While not all women are immediately comfortable with the idea, but many find facesitting deeply empowering and pleasurable. Here's why:

• Control and dominance – being literally ''on top'' can feel powerful.
  

• Deeper oral stimulation – sitting allows for different angles and pressure.

• Confidence and body positivity – it's a reminder that your body is sexy and deserves pleasure.

You may ask, does facesitting hurt? Some women feel hesitant at first. They try hard to stay perfectly positioned. This prevents suffocating their partner. But this makes it harder to relax and enjoy. Others find it too close or personal. Some feel too exposed, even with someone they trust.

The truth is, bodyweight doesn't make a difference here. It's about confidence. You're in that position for your own pleasure. If someone is uncomfortable or out of breath, they will fix it. They will let you know immediately. Agree on hand signals or tap-outs beforehand. This keeps things safe and fun.

If you're worried about your weight, use your arms. Hold onto something like a wall or headboard.

How to Facesit? Facesitting Techniques

1. Find a position where you feel comfortable and balanced.

2. Sit down, relax your legs, and be comfortable putting your weight on them. 

3. Give your partner time to adjust their breathing and position.

4. Grind or rock your hips, thrust or push/pull away.  

5. Agree on a non-verbal safe hand signal if breathing becomes too restricted.

6. Turn around or lean back and play with his cock, clitoris or nipple. It's great.

7. Adding sex toys like clitoral stimulators, G-spot vibrators, dildos, or butt plugs can make the experience better for both parties.

8. Watch their reactions—facesitting is about shared pleasure.

Even if you relax, bent knees create a buffer. It would be more intense with legs out in an L shape. But you could still handle it.

Tips and Tricks

Here are some tips and tricks to improve or change up the basic facesit.

During the act, both of you need to be comfortable. Your partner should not be suffocated. Stay within their comfort level.

1. Keep your knees on either side of his head and hold onto something in front of you - this means you're transferring the weight of your body away from just your knees and shifting the center of gravity such that you can control your hips but not bear down on his face entirely unless you want to do it occasionally for the thrill.

2. Consider keeping pillows around on either side of his head so your knees can be comfortably supported.

3. Ask him to cup your butt so that you can be massaged as you ride his face, and his fingers can signal to you if something is off.
   

Other Fun Ways to Tease

If you dislike receiving blow jobs, or feel awkward, try these interesting teasing ways.

1. Tying the other person up and blind folding them, teasing with him by drawing away just when he wanted more. That was definitely a turn on.

2. Bobbing onto his face, driving yourself onto him. This is such a wonderful way to show your body off.

I may be self-conscious about my body. But the pleasure outweighs worrying about wobbly bits. Pun intended.

And make your guy do whatever the fuck you want. Maybe smother him with a wartenberg pinwheel and feather ticklers teasers dance across his skin. Grind into his face a bit. Tease him.

Final Thought

So, do women or men like facesitting?

Absolutely. For men, it’s the thrill of submission and giving. For women, it’s empowerment, confidence, and intense orgasms.

Be selfish, enjoy your orgasms - he will too!