Some couples might be curious about exploring sex toys and want to try them out together, but hesitate because they don't know how to bring it up or fear that it might lead to awkwardness. The truth is that this topic can be easily incorporated into your relationship through open communication and can even enhance your sense of intimacy.
In this article, we'll explore how to introduce adult toys into a relationship and offer some practical advice. If you have better ideas, feel free to share them in the comments!
Tips for Men - Choosing the Right Moment
If you're a man wanting to bring up the idea, try doing so during a non-sexual moment. You could say something like, "Honey, I want to talk about our sex life and check-in. I want to know what things I do that you love and what things you're not too crazy about, and I want to know if anything hurts." Once you’re comfortable discussing sex, gently ask her if she’s ever wanted to try any toys. Suggest going to a sex shop together to browse. This should be a mutual decision. That’s where I’d start.
Another approach might be, "Hey, how about we try some toys to spice things up in bed?" Start from there and let the conversation evolve. Remember, don't buy anything until you've talked. Open communication is key!
If she’s not comfortable, Don’t Force It!
Tips for Women - Speak Up About Your Desires
If you're a woman, be open with your partner about what makes you happy instead of staying silent. Tell him what you like and guide him on how to do it. Explore each other's preferences together; this will likely excite him even more.
When a man brings up the idea of using toys, it shows that he’s thinking about you and is eager to keep things sexy and fun. Just make sure you understand her personality! If she loves surprises and is quite adventurous, I’d suggest getting her a gift!
Finally, make sure whatever you choose is safe (consider the type of plastic, size, etc.). If you’re buying lubricants, stick to the water-based ones, as women need to avoid chemicals down there.
Sex is a beautiful and natural journey. After all, that’s what it’s all about.
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