Tapped your partner with a spatula while cooking? Felt inspiration from your electric toothbrush? You've entered the world of DIY sex toys.
DIY in the bedroom means using creative skills. Find everyday household items for a new erotic purpose. These are often called "pervertables." They are objects "perverted" from original use for kinky lives. Making your own toys is pleasurable crafting. However, safety and hygiene are crucial. Ensure your fun doesn't end at the doctor.
At we celebrate sexual creativity but we also prioritize your physical well-being. Here is everything you need to know about crafting safe and pleasurable DIY experiences.
Safety First: Materials to Use and Avoid
Before raiding your pantry or utility closet it is essential to understand the physics of safety. Your genitals are covered in sensitive mucous membranes that are highly susceptible to irritation and infection.
1. The Porous vs. Non-Porous Rule
According to clinical sexologists the most important distinction is whether an item is porous or non-porous.
- Non-Porous Materials: These include medical-grade silicone stainless steel and certain high-quality plastics. They have a smooth surface with no microscopic holes making them easy to sanitize.
- Porous Materials: Items like sponges certain fabrics or unsealed wood contain tiny holes that trap bacteria mold and bodily fluids. These are a breeding ground for infection and should generally be avoided for internal use.
2. Materials to Avoid
- Glass: Never use standard household glass (like bottles or jars). They are not tempered for internal body heat or pressure and can shatter causing catastrophic injury.
- Sharp or Splintery Objects: Avoid anything with rough edges or unsealed wood that could cause micro-tears or splinters.
- Harmful Chemicals: Steer clear of items treated with industrial dyes paints or pesticides. Stick to food-grade or body-safe materials.
Sanitization: How to Prep Your DIY Sex Toys
Just like a high-quality a DIY toy must be cleaned before and after every use.
- The Wash: Use warm water and a mild unscented soap. If the material allows a specialized sex toy cleaner is even better.
- The Barrier Method: One of the smartest ways to use a DIY toy is to cover it with a condom. This provides a non-porous smooth surface and makes cleanup a breeze. If you are using an item like a cucumber a condom prevents the vegetable from breaking or releasing juices that could cause a yeast infection.
- Electrical Safety: Never submerge items with batteries (like electric toothbrushes) in water unless they are explicitly rated as waterproof.
Common Household Items as Sex Toys
You’d be surprised how many "pleasure tools" are currently sitting in your drawers. Here are some of the most popular and effective ideas for .
1. Water Play: The Original DIY
The shower is a common DIY masturbation technique. No detachable showerhead is needed. Lie on the shower floor. Let the water spray directly onto the clitoris. This can be incredibly effective. For those with a jacuzzi, jets offer powerful stimulation. Test pressure and temperature first. Avoid a "shock" to your system.
2. The Electric Toothbrush
An electric toothbrush handle provides high-frequency vibrations. Many find this perfect for clitoral stimulation. However, sexologists warn against penetration. Do not penetrate yourself with an electric toothbrush. Battery acid leakage is a risk. The head can snap off. It is unsafe for internal use.
3. Kitchen "Pervertables"
The kitchen is a goldmine for BDSM enthusiasts.
- Paddles: A wooden spoon or a small wooden cheese board with a handle makes an excellent improvised paddle for light spanking.
- Spatulas: Silicone spatulas are fantastic because silicone is body-safe and incredibly easy to sanitize.
4. Furniture and Appliances
Many explore self-pleasure by "humping" a sturdy sofa corner. Use pillows for friction. Some sit on a washing machine during its spin cycle. The heavy, rhythmic vibrations provide unique full-body arousal.
The Fridge: Produce and Temperature Play
Using food in the bedroom can be a sensory delight but it requires the most caution.
- Temperature Play: A frozen strawberry or cherry can be used to brush over a partner’s nipples or neck for a chilling erotic sensation.
- Internal Use: If you are using a vegetable (like a cucumber or carrot) as a dildo you must wash it thoroughly to remove pesticides and use a condom.
- Anal Caution: Never insert produce into the anus. Unlike the vagina the anus does not have a "stop" (cervix). Items without a flared base can easily become lost inside requiring an embarrassing and expensive trip to the emergency room.
DIY Lubricants: What’s Safe?
If you run out of your favorite water-based lube don't just grab anything from the pantry.
- Safe Options: Virgin coconut oil and olive oil are generally safe for external use and clitoral play.
- The Catch: Oil-based "lubes" will degrade latex condoms instantly leading to breaks. They also stay in the vaginal canal longer than water-based options which can increase the risk of yeast infections for those who are prone to them.
Why Creativity Matters?
DIY-ing your sex toys isn't just about saving money. It's about creative pleasure. Seeing the world through a "pleasure lens" helps you. You become more in tune with what feels good. This spontaneity leads to a more satisfying sex life. It can also enhance intimacy with your partner.
However remember that while DIY is fun it often can't replicate the specific technology of professional tools. For instance the targeted air-pulse technology found in provides a sensation that a showerhead or toothbrush simply cannot match.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is it safe to use a hairbrush handle as a sex toy?
It depends on the material. If it is smooth non-porous plastic it can be safe if covered with a condom. Avoid handles with ridges rubber grips or porous wood as these can harbor bacteria or cause irritation.
Can I use an electric toothbrush in the bathtub?
Generally no. Most electric toothbrushes are water-resistant but not fully waterproof. Using them submerged in a bath poses a risk of damaging the device or in rare cases electrical issues.
What should I do if a DIY toy gets stuck?
If an object becomes stuck internally do not panic. Try to relax your muscles and see if you can gently reach it. If it is in the anus or deep in the vagina and you cannot retrieve it seek medical attention immediately. Doctors have seen it all—don't let embarrassment compromise your health.
Can I use Vaseline or baby oil as lube?
No. These are petroleum-based. They are difficult for the body to wash away. This can lead to bacterial vaginosis or yeast infections. They also destroy latex condoms.
Are there any "DIY" toys that are actually dangerous?
Yes. Thin glass items are risky. Anything with sharp edges should be avoided. Objects with small, removable parts are also dangerous. A toothbrush head, for example, could come off internally. These are considered high-risk items.
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